Well, if you get caught up in things like this, when there is a onetime sudden invite feedback, what should we do? How do we know whether he should be given a second chance?
1. Still friends
Friendship With HimIf our friends we thought former is a delightful person to be with, meaning the he is worthy of consideration.
2. We Think Not Stop.
The relationship was over many months, even more than a year ago, but we still often daydream about the former. If accidentally met in one place, heart pounding, and we felt so embarrassed.
3. He Never Rough
The former can still be considered is the one who has never done the rough both physically and verbally. During the courtship he never treats us badly.
4. Watch How Asking "Reverse".
Did he send a SMS or BBM ask your girlfriend back so suddenly, without any prior approach? Lest it is just a desire for a moment, or he just missed out on because of the sudden triggered a memory, and changed his mind the next day. Although there have been previous relationship, ask refer to the former should be done like pedekate before the court, not by way of instant. He invites us to a date at least once, at least once.
5. How to Solve Relationship Failed in the Past
For example, once we broke up with him because of religious difference, make sure we already know the solution, and the former if you want to get back together. So even if the reason we broke up is a bad trait or pairs, such as the former is too possessive. Discuss and find solutions to problems before we decide to reconnect. If the main problem is not solved yet, it's useless. Our relationship would have ended up again for the same reason.
6. He's Still Single.
Just because he still loves us, does not mean he did not say love also to other women. Be careful, not a playboy who spread nets on many women and waiting to see who will take the bait. It could be that we just simply backup.
7. With him happy
Maybe once we consider the nature of the ex jealous can no longer tolerable, so we decided to end the relationship. But if it turns out we actually suffered after breaking it, might actually still no other way than to break up. Unlike the case if during courtship, you and your partner spend 50 percent of time to fight. If we made while courting cry sad / upset once a week, maybe we should not be with him again.
8. Always Imagined
If you feel he is not quite right so the man who will marry you someday, why waste time with back in a relationship with him? Time to look for another man more appropriate.
9. Forgive each other already.
The relationship can not be woven back if you or the former still hold a grudge and not fully forgive past mistakes. Revenge could be a latent danger that could erupt at any time and prying back in contention.
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