Ever hear the song That's what friends are for, Dionne Warwick sung it? Song that was ever so popular in the late 80s, it seems fitting to describe how important a friendship.It was not just a friend of a friend vent, friends hanging out, but also our friend in all situations, and bad. No wonder, was so important, then the price of friendship is not negotiable. Never even replaceable.That is why not a few people who claim to establish a friendship is difficult, let alone build friendships believed to be more viscous element that proximity. In fact, their efforts and initiatives in building friendships, can not be said to be arbitrary. Not just diligent to call or invite to play to a boarding house, but there is also to Managing time so that could be a Japanese language course together. If so, where is kesalahnnya?Perhaps no one is wrong. But to get a true friend it does need to be patient. The most important thing is not overbearing. Let seeds appear and grow together naturally. There's also a good idea to stick to the philosophy To have a friend, be a friend. That is, if you want to get a friend, you must be a friend to that person.In addition to adhering to the philosophy that, in order to obtain a solid friendship quality, you can follow the following steps:
1. Be yourself.
If you believe that you are worthy enough for a fellowship, the attitude and behavior will be seen from all the things you do. Well, a lot of people who are comfortable and positive thinking when befriending those who have self-confidence was pretty good.
2. Loyal.
The nature of loyalty is one of the main pillars of a solid friendship. How not. You certainly want to be trusted and can not trust your best friend? You would also want to keep your best friend with you when you're in trouble, and vice versa. For that reason, it takes the name sense of loyalty.
3. No anti-criticism.
Friends who supposedly are actually those who are not only diligent praise but also likes to give positive criticism. For that you do not need anti with their criticism because after all you also aim for the good of not?
4. Lightweight hand.
Your friends will really appreciate all the kindness and help that you provided. Especially if you do it with sincerity without any frills and without having to be asked by him.
5. Fair-minded.
As a friend, it will be better if you examine a common problem from a different angle. How much faster would likely solve the problem.
6. Want to hear.
In a friendship, you should not just home to hear her vent, but try to pay attention and do not monopolize the conversation.
7. Do not use your friend as a personal adviser.
Why? Little bit, vent, make sure you become a boring couple. Another case when you have to ask your friend if he would like to listen to your problems.
8. Sharing happiness with friends.
Do not just vent any time you remember a friend, but more time needs to be happy too.
9. Do not forget a friend's birthday.
Given the special days are a necessity friend. Send a card or flowers, to show that you are worth a great friend.
10. Show that you are thinking of him when you are not with her.
How all kinds, can send cards, e-mail, SMS, or leave a message on her phone, when not able to meet. Alternatively, you can also send an article from a magazine that she likes
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